When you have a life-limiting illness, there are many difficult decisions to be made. There will also be difficult situations to deal with. It can be hard to talk about certain things. These will be different for each person. It could be about your feelings and emotions. It may be about your finances or care directions. It may be that you are worried about your family and friends.
Sometimes you will make choices that others may not agree with. This can be difficult to talk about. An example could be in making end-of-life decisions. It could be about arranging your will or funeral.
It may be easier to avoid talking about death and dying or things that are worrying you. You may worry that certain issues will be too upsetting and you won’t raise them. Sometimes it can be a relief when someone does talk about these things.
Perhaps you will need to be the one who initiates these conversations. Some ways to start a conversation might include:
Ask your palliative care team to help direct you to the information or support that you need. There are also resources listed below for more suggestions on what to say.
Visit the Dying to Talk website and resources
Download Cancer Australia’s: Finding the Words
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Last updated 08 July 2021