Not every family talks openly with each other. This often may not change, even though you have a life-limiting illness or you are dying.
Communication can be difficult but not impossible.
Decide the best ways in which you, your carer and your family members can talk with each other. If you enjoy good relationships starting the conversation might be easy, or it might not. Sometimes a shared film or song can help to start people thinking and talking about death.
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Sometimes events that are not related to your illness have made talking with each other more difficult. Family members often move away to other areas. Divorce and remarriage can create new families. These things mean that people communicate in a different way.
Sometimes it can help if your health care team arranges a family meeting (or case conference). This can provide a place for family members to ask questions and find out what is happening and what is needed. If family live far away it might be possible to use services like Skype to bring everyone together.
There will be important information that you need to share with different people. Remember, the palliative care team may be able to help you to look at communication with those important to you.
Visit the Hospice UK website: About death and dying
Visit the Better Health Channel website for a fact sheet on relationships and communication
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Last updated 02 August 2021