Talk to your Doctor
Some people feel that their doctor is reluctant to discuss sexuality. Don’t let that stop you. Your sexuality is likely to be crucial to how you feel about yourself and your life, so seek all the advice you need. Your doctor may be able to help with physical matters and, if they do not have the answers to emotional concerns, they will refer you to someone who may, such as a social worker, psychologist or counsellor.
Talk to your partner
Talking about your feelings, concerns and anxieties helps your partner both understand and, hopefully, help. Even if sex itself is off the agenda, warmth, closeness and intimacy are just as important.
For more information
Q: Do I still need to use contraceptives and other precautions
if I have had, or am having, extensive cancer treatments?
A: Infertility may be temporary or permanent after treatments
such as radiotherapy, especially in the pelvic area, or
chemotherapy. Although, fertility problems can be a side-
effect of cancer treatment, this is not always the case. You
need to consider the risks of becoming pregnant or your
partner becoming pregnant. Remember that it can be
dangerous for a baby to be conceived during and
immediately after chemotherapy. Chemotherapy drugs can
stay in your system for about 48 hours. So it may be wise to
avoid intercourse during this time or use a barrier
contraceptive, such as a condom.
(Source: Cancer Council Victoria, Sexuality and Cancer, October 2007)
- Call the Cancer Council 13 11 20 to talk to trained counsellors.
- The Cancer Council has booklets on Sexuality for Men With Cancer, Sexuality for People Who Have Stoma (Ostomy) and Sexuality for Women With Cancer or call 13 11 20 to have them sent to you.
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Life, Hope & Reality was developed and written by Afaf Girgis, Claire Johnson, and Sylvie Lambert with funding from the NHMRC and Cancer Council NSW.
Last updated 30 August 2015